Question 1

How do I schedule my first appointment?

Accepted Answer

You can schedule by calling (360) 450-2327, emailing info@thriverelationaltherapy.com, or using the contact form on our website. We'll respond within 24-48 hours to get you scheduled.

Question 2

Do you offer a free consultation?

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Yes! We offer a brief free phone consultation to discuss your needs, answer questions, and determine if we're a good fit. This helps ensure you feel comfortable before committing to therapy.

Question 3

What should I expect in my first session?

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Your first session is about getting to know each other. We'll discuss what brings you to therapy, your goals, your history, and how we can work together. It's also a chance for you to ask questions and see if therapy with me feels right for you. There's no pressure—just honest conversation.

Question 4

How long are therapy sessions?

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Standard sessions are 50-60 minutes. We meet weekly for most clients, though frequency can be adjusted based on your needs and goals.

Question 5

Do you see individuals, couples, or both?

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Both! I work with individuals seeking personal growth, authenticity, and healing, as well as couples navigating relationship challenges, infidelity, sexual concerns, and more.

Question 6

How much do sessions cost?

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Session fees vary. Please schedule a free consultation to discuss pricing and payment options that work best for you.

Question 7

Do you accept insurance?

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Yes! I accept Aetna, PacificSource, and out-of-network benefits for other insurance plans. I'm happy to help you verify your insurance coverage before your first appointment.

Question 8

What if I don't have insurance or my insurance isn't accepted?

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I accept self-pay clients. Payment is due at the time of service. I accept cash, check, credit cards (Visa, Mastercard, American Express, Discover), and Health Savings Accounts (HSA).

Question 9

How do out-of-network benefits work?

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If your insurance offers out-of-network benefits, you pay upfront and I'll provide a superbill (detailed receipt) that you can submit to your insurance for reimbursement. Many clients receive partial reimbursement this way.

Question 10

Do you offer sliding scale fees?

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At this time, I maintain a standard fee structure. However, if cost is a barrier, let's talk during your consultation—we can discuss options or I can provide referrals to lower-cost resources if needed.

Question 11

What is your therapeutic approach?

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I use an eclectic, evidence-based approach tailored to your unique needs. This includes Gottman Method for couples, Attachment-based therapy, Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Family systems therapy, Person-centered therapy, and Relational and narrative therapy. My style is direct, warm, and non-shaming. I believe understanding both your present experience and past context creates lasting change.

Question 12

What does 'sex-positive' and 'non-shaming' mean?

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Sex-positive means I view sexuality as a natural, healthy part of life. There's no judgment about your sexual interests, desires, fantasies, or relationship structures. Non-shaming means you can be completely honest without fear of judgment. This is a safe space to explore who you truly are.

Question 13

Are you LGBTQ+ affirming?

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Absolutely. I'm LGBTQ+ affirming, transgender allied, and experienced working with diverse sexual orientations, gender identities, and relationship structures. You're safe and welcome here exactly as you are.

Question 14

Do you work with alternative relationship structures?

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Yes! I have experience and training working with open relationships, polyamory, ethical non-monogamy, and other consensual alternative relationship structures. All relationship configurations are welcome and respected.

Question 15

Are you kink-allied?

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Yes, I'm kink-allied and sex worker allied. I understand that consensual kink and BDSM are healthy expressions of sexuality. You won't face judgment for your interests or lifestyle.

Question 16

Where is your office located?

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My office is located at 601 Main Street, Suite 300, Vancouver, WA 98660. It's a comfortable, private space designed for confidential conversations.

Question 17

Do you offer telehealth/online sessions?

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Yes! I offer secure, HIPAA-compliant telehealth sessions via video for clients who prefer virtual therapy or cannot make it to the office. Many clients find telehealth just as effective as in-person sessions.

Question 18

What are your office hours?

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Monday: 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM, Tuesday: 9:00 AM - 8:00 PM, Wednesday: 9:00 AM - 12:00 PM, Friday: 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM. Evening and limited daytime appointments are available. Let me know your scheduling needs and we'll find a time that works.

Question 19

What's your cancellation policy?

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I require 24-hour notice for cancellations or rescheduling. Late cancellations or no-shows may be charged the full session fee unless due to emergency. This policy helps me serve all clients effectively.

Question 20

How long will I need to be in therapy?

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It varies! Some clients achieve their goals in a few months, while others prefer ongoing support. We'll regularly check in on your progress and goals. You're never locked in—therapy continues as long as it's helpful.

Question 21

Is therapy confidential?

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Yes. Everything discussed in therapy is confidential and protected by law (HIPAA). I will not share your information without your written consent, except in specific situations required by law (risk of harm to self/others, child/elder abuse, or court order).

Question 22

What about couples therapy—is that confidential too?

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Yes. What's discussed in couples therapy stays in couples therapy. However, I don't keep secrets between partners. If one partner shares something individually that affects the couple's work, I'll encourage them to share it in session.

Question 23

Are my records secure?

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Absolutely. All records are stored securely in HIPAA-compliant systems. Your privacy and confidentiality are top priorities.

Question 24

Do you specialize in infidelity recovery?

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Yes. I have specialized training and extensive experience helping couples heal from affairs and betrayal. I use structured, evidence-based approaches to guide couples through the recovery process with clarity and compassion.

Question 25

What is sex therapy?

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Sex therapy addresses sexual concerns, desire discrepancies, pleasure, intimacy, sexual communication, and sexual functioning. It's talk therapy focused on sexuality—not physical exams or demonstrations. Topics include desire, arousal, orgasm, pain, fantasy, kink, and building sexual fulfillment.

Question 26

Can you help with sexual trauma?

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Yes, I'm trained in trauma-informed care and have experience working with clients healing from sexual trauma. We'll work at your pace in a safe, supportive environment.

Question 27

Do you work with issues around sexual identity or orientation?

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Absolutely. I support clients exploring their sexual orientation, gender identity, coming out, and navigating identity in relationships and society. This is an affirming, non-judgmental space.

Question 28

Can therapy help if we're not sure we want to stay together?

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Yes. Therapy can help you gain clarity about your relationship. Whether you decide to repair, separate, or need time to decide, I'll support you in making the best decision for both partners.

Question 29

What if my partner won't come to therapy?

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Individual therapy can still be incredibly valuable. We can work on your personal growth, communication skills, and relationship patterns. Sometimes one partner starting therapy encourages the other to join later.

Question 30

Do you prescribe medication?

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No. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), I don't prescribe medication. However, if medication might be helpful, I can provide referrals to psychiatrists or psychiatric nurse practitioners.

Question 31

Can you provide letters for gender-affirming care, immigration, or other purposes?

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Potentially, yes. These requests are evaluated on a case-by-case basis and require an established therapeutic relationship. Let's discuss your specific needs during a consultation.

Question 32

Do you offer group therapy?

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Currently, I focus on individual and couples therapy. If you're interested in group therapy, I'm happy to provide referrals to colleagues who offer groups.

Question 33

Can I bring my partner to an individual session?

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Occasionally bringing your partner to an individual session can be helpful. However, regular couples therapy requires separate intake and consent. We can discuss this if it becomes relevant.

Question 34

What if I need to contact you between sessions?

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You're welcome to email me between sessions for brief questions or scheduling. For urgent clinical concerns, please call my office. For mental health emergencies, call 911 or the National Crisis Line at 988.

Question 35

Are you currently accepting new clients?

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Availability varies. Please contact me to check current openings. If I'm not accepting new clients, I'm happy to provide referrals to trusted colleagues.

Question 36

What if we're not a good fit?

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Not every therapist is right for every client, and that's okay! If we're not a good fit, I'll help you find someone who is. Your therapeutic relationship matters, and finding the right match is important.

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